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And Then Some Approach
  > An attitude of gratitude And Then Some
  > Eight steps for raising your standards And Then Some!
  > Mindfulness is a way of seeing things as they really are And Then Some
  > Simple Suggestions for Improving Your Life And Then Some
  > The Core of the "AND THEN SOME" Philosophy Part 1
  > The Core of the "AND THEN SOME" Philosophy Part 2


 Education
  > Dealing With Mediocre Teachers
  > Effective Learning Means Being a Student of and for Life
  > Get a College Education!
  > Hidden benefits of college
  > The link between homework and success
  > What is the Importance of Public Education?


 Family
  > A weekend with the grandkids And Then Some...
  > Most fathers have no idea the influence they have on their children
  > The best things in your life were planted by the tender hand of your mother


 Gender
  > Because of the way they are wired, often women make better leaders than men
  > Gender differences need to be acknowledged, accepted, and exploited


 Humor
  > How do you develop a sense of humor?

  > A Gathering of Scientists


 Messages
  > The message citizens don't want to hear
  > Ten messages kids don't want to hear
  > The Message Men Don’t Want to Hear
  > The Message Parents Don’t Want to Hear
  > The message relationship partners don't want to hear
  > The Message Students Don’t Want to Hear
  > The Message Women Don’t Want to Hear


Miscellaneous
  > Christmas is about people
  > Dear Mom and Dad: Lives and then some
  > A fourth grade perspective on the world
  > Gifts that keep on giving
  > Reasons why the Law of Attraction (LOA) is a myth
  > The first anniversary of posted essays


  Politics
  > Random thoughts on the presidential election of 2008
  > What qualities make a good president?
  > If truth is to prevail, image consumption must be replaced by word devotion
  > Making sense of political rhetoric: What are the keys?
  > Make a Choice...


  Public Speaking
  > A Testament to the Power of Speech
  > Fear of Public Speaking: A Method for Overcoming It
  > How do you give “the speech of your life”?
  > Impromptu Speaking Without the Fear and Panic
  > Leadership is not a bag of tricks - It depends on values, vision, and communication
  > Martin Luther King’s ‘I Have a Dream’ speech — The greatest and most notable speech in history
  > Six time-tested ways dealing with fear of public speaking

  Relationships
  > Five Reasons Why Talk Is Essential to Relationships
  > Relationship Luck Takes Hard Work


  Self Help   > An analytical approach yields confidence and satisfaction
  > An attitude of gratitude And Then Some
  > Are you skeptical regarding change?
  > Be aware of the myths that guide your life
  > Eight steps for raising your standards And Then Some!
  > Eliminate Every Excuse?
  > Excuses are the nails used to build a house of failure
  > Forget about resolutions and promises — Take care of your new car!
  > Fundamentals first before fun!
  > The fun in FUNdamentals! — How to find the fun in all FUNctions!
  > Healthy Selfishness Contributes to Being Effective, Efficient, and Productive
  > Live life to the fullest!...
  > Mindfulness is a way of seeing things as they really are And Then Some
  > Pull yourself up by your own bootstraps
  > Secure your foundation: Forget resolutions
  > Self-discipline can change your life in any way you want it to
  > Simple Suggestions for Improving Your Life And Then Some


 Sports
  > The Super Bowl: All American - All Excess!
  > The Super Bowl And Then Some
  > Michigan versus Ohio State: Just another football game? It’s a game And Then Some


 Thought provoking
  > A “thinking” environment should be at the core of any true democracy
  > The "feel good" pattern
  > We Get What We Deserve When It Comes to Alcohol Overuse and Abuse


 Travel
  > World geography and then some
  > When "camping" becomes exceptional
  > Traveling by guess and by gosh
  > Traveling by guess and by gosh II
  > Travel While You’re Young
  > Canoeing the Pine River
  > Celebrity’s Millennium plies the Mediterranean with an emphasis on service and satisfaction


 Very Personal
  > Why do I read? It has the potential for transforming how I think and feel
  > Trying to understand everything
  > Being “handy” is a quality that never ceases to be useful


 Writing
  > So you want to write a book?
  > A Beginners Guide to Writing a Book
  > Do you want to be a writer?
  > How to overcome the curse of knowledge in teaching and writing
  > On being a writer --- an irresistible compulsion!


Travel... And Then Some
Cruising, canoeing and more...

My wife and I enjoyed a wonderful and rewarding cruise on board Celebrity’s ship, Millennium, and the wait staff there were truly representative of all those on our previous cruises. It makes no difference whether you are in the ship’s dining room or any other place on board, the wait staff aims to please. Everyone from the officers down to the workers who paint, clean, and polish will go out of their way, in every way they can, to assure a pleasant, rewarding, and successful cruising experience. Does it make a difference? When we first began cruising seven years ago, we never thought of ourselves as people who would like it, yet this is our eighth time! Something “right” has to be happening! My conclusion is that the service and satisfaction pays off; it just keeps bringing us back.

Cruising is just one option for the traveler. Canoeing is another option.

The Pine River is an experience for knowledgeable canoeists whose instincts regarding the control and maneuvering of canoes are well in place. With planning, good friends, and a great canoe livery, we have made it an exciting and rewarding annual experience.


 
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World geography and then some
March 2009
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

I was looking at a map of our travels on Celebrity’s ship Millennium for their “Classic Mediterranean Cruise,” and one thought occurred to me. My wife stated it succinctly: “This cruise is a great geography lesson.” We were asking a passenger at another table in the Ocean Caf if he could identify the islands we were passing on the starboard side of the ship. He pointed out that we were probably about one-third of the way north in the Adriatic Sea, headed for Venice, our final destination, but he could not identify the islands. His response, however, prompted me to consult an onboard map to find out the names for myself.

On the map I consulted, the Mediterranean Sea was not labeled; however, each of the individual seas was clearly named. For example, who would know that at Barcelona we began our cruise in the Balearic Sea? It is that body of water between Spain and the Balearic Islands.

From Spain we traveled east to the port of Villefranche on the French Riviera. Who would know that the French Riviera lies on the Ligurian Sea? The Ligurian Sea borders the countries Italy, France, and Monaco. The ports of Genoa, La Spezia, and Livorno (where we stopped after leaving Villefranche) are on its rocky coast. To get to Livorno, we had to pass through the stretch of water that separates the island of Corsica from the Italian mainland known as the Corsica Channel. It is about 50 miles wide and divides the Ligurian Sea from the Tyrrhenian Sea.

Did you know that to get to Florence by cruise ship, you dock at the port of Livorno, Italy? To get to Rome by cruise ship, you dock at the port of Civitavecchia. Those ports, as noted above, are located in the Tyrrhenian Sea — as is the port of Napoli (the port at Naples, Italy). On this cruise, I learned so much geography.

On our way from Naples to Athens, Greece, we passed through the Strait of Messina, which lies between Italy and Sicily. It is a narrow section of water which measures just 1.9 miles in breadth, though near the town of Messina, the breadth is more on the order of 3.2 miles. There is a natural whirlpool that forms in the strait which has been linked to the legend of Scylla and Charybdis — hazards faced by Odysseus on his epic sea voyage.

On our way east to Athens, we were in the Ionian and Myrtoan Seas. The Ionian Sea is an arm of the Mediterranean Sea directly south of the Adriatic and bounded by southern Italy, including Calabria, Sicily, and the Salento peninsula, and to the west by southwestern Albania and a large number of Greek islands. I had never heard of the Myrtoan (Mirtoan) Sea. It lies between the Cyclades and the Peloponnesos, and it is described as the part of the Aegean Sea south of Euboea, Attica, and Argolis. Who would have guessed?

From Athens we proceeded much farther north to Istanbul through the Aegean Sea. It is the arm of the Mediterranean Sea located between the southern Balkan and Anatolian peninsulas between the mainlands of Greece and Turkey respectively. In the north, it is connected to the Marmara Sea and Black Sea by the Dardanelles and Bosporus. The Aegean Sea was traditionally known as the Archipelago, the general sense of which has since changed to refer to the Aegean Islands and, generally, to any island group because the Aegean Sea is remarkable for its large number of islands.

When we realized our ship would be passing through the Dardanelles, the narrow strait in northwestern Turkey that connects the Aegean Sea to the Sea of Marmara, in the dead of night, we were told, “No problem, see it on the way out.” It turns out that we left through this 38-mile long, three-quarters to 4 mile wide, 180-foot deep (with a maximum depth of 300 feet), early in the morning before there was light, so we missed it in both directions. What makes this strait interesting is that water flows through it in both directions — from the Sea of Marmara to the Aegean via a surface current and in the opposite direction via an undercurrent.

The Dardanelles, like the Bosporus Sea, separates Europe (in this case the Gallipoli peninsula) and the mainland of Asia. It is an International waterway, and together with the Bosphorus, the Dardanelles connects the Black Sea to the Mediterranean Sea.

To get to Istanbul by ship, you must pass through the Dardanelles. In the very early morning when we were to make the trip there was so much ship traffic that it delayed our arrival in Istanbul by 1 ½ hours. Istanbul is Turkey’s most populous city and is located on the Bosphorus Strait and encompasses the natural harbor known as the Golden Horn. It extends both on the European and on the Asian side of the Bosphorus and is thereby the only metropolis in the world situated on two continents. It served as the capital city of the Roman Empire, the Byzantine Empire, the Latin Empire, and the Ottoman Empire, and it was our favorite city on this trip.

From Istanbul we traveled back south through the Aegean Sea to the Greek islands of Mykonos and Santorrini. Mykonos, part of the Cyclades lying between Tinos, Siros, Paros, and Naxos, is one of the top international tourist destinations and is famous for its cosmopolitan character and its intense nightlife. Santorini, the southernmost member of the Cyclades group of islands, is comprised of the municipality of Thira and the community of Oja. It is essentially what remains of an enormous volcanic explosion 3,500 years ago which destroyed the earliest settlements on what was formerly a single circular island and leading to the creation of the current geological caldera. The giant central lagoon measures 8 miles by 4 miles and is surrounded by 984-foot high steep cliffs on three sides. The capital, Fira, clings to the top of the cliff and looks down on the lagoon.

From the Greek islands we turned north into the Adriatic Sea toward Venice with the east side of the boot of Italy at our port side and the countries of Greece, Albania, Montenegro, Croatia, Bosnia-Hercegovina, and Slovenija on our starboard. Into Venice we sailed the Gulf of Venice.

Probably the easiest way to learn geography is to go there. Even though you hear about countries on the news or read about them in books, it is difficult to know where they are or how they relate to other nearby countries. This Mediterranean cruise was an eye-opener and helped me with world geography — and then some!


Test Your Geography Knowledge, is just a “fun” website you might enjoy.

At infoplease.com, the site will answer any questions you may have on world geography.

About.com:geography, is a website for maps of any place in the world.

Google Earth - Download the application and go anywhere you want on the planet and even underwater


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> When "camping" becomes exceptional
> Traveling by guess and by gosh
> Traveling by guess and by gosh II
> Travel While You’re Young
> Canoeing the Pine River
> Celebrity’s Millennium plies the Mediterranean with an emphasis on service and satisfaction




When "camping" becomes exceptional
December 2008
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

Someone could say that no camping (at all) is exceptional camping or that any camping at all is great camping — both extremes of the same subject. Today (09-08-08), however, reveals how truly exceptional “camping” can be.

My wife and I come from camping families, so it comes as no surprise that we both enjoy and pursue it with considerable interest and vigor.

We are “camping” in “Brennan Beach RV Resort” in Pulaski, New York, and this place is the largest park we have ever camped in with over 1400 sites, a combination of seasonal and overnight/destination types. It is hard to imagine (even for us), the size of this place, and if it were full, I would probably not be writing an essay on this topic, with this slant, at this park.

We are in this park for 3 nights, and we are likely to extend our stay for another night. When we checked in (this being the week following Labor Day), most campers had already departed. Having selected the more wooded area, we were already choosing the less popular area of the park; however, we are in a site surrounded by other sites, but nobody (with the exception of two other trailers quite a distance from us), is here. We are by ourselves.

Each of the 1400 camping sites here has full service: electric, water, sewer, and cable (wireless Internet access is available at the pavilion). The 62 sites surrounding us (we are approximately in the center of this wooded area), all have level concrete pads, and when we step out of our 5th wheel, we step onto this pad. There is a picnic table on the pad just to the left of our 5th-wheel door under our awning, and although this entire setup is an awesome arrangement, it justifies precisely why I place “camping” in quotation marks. This is camping?

It is currently 72 degrees, there is a blue sky with no clouds, and a slight breeze. Last night (our first night here) it was very dark and completely silent. Within 200 feet of our campsite (within visual distance through the trees), there are showers, a very clean restroom, and a dispenser for a daily newspaper.

We decided to stay in our campsite today since we have been on the road for 13 days. We wanted to relax and not get into the truck to travel or sightsee. Our biggest adventure today was to visit the camp store and swimming pool and walk down to and along the beach. The point of this essay is to extol the virtues of this form of camping — “camping” this way is truly exceptional.

Today I fixed a grilled cheese and ham sandwich on our electric, two-burner stove on the picnic table, had French-vanilla yogurt poured over bananas, grapes, cherries, black raspberries, and pineapple. A cup of coffee and a chocolate-chip cookie completed my lunch. It is an exceptional lunch.

We are carrying with us a small (two-person) crock pot, and Andrea has a ham and cabbage slow-cooker dinner simmering (for 8-10 hours) for dinner tonight. The delightful aroma in the 5th wheel is mouth watering.

Of the 13 days we have been on the road, we have had two camping experiences like this: under the shade of enormous trees, in a full-service, level, campsite, private, and quiet at night. The good weather we have had is an added benefit and comes at no additional charge.

What a great way to relax! We fully realize that larger trailers and larger 5th wheels come with even more amenities, but as far as we’re concerned, we have all we need. The bed, for example, is extremely comfortable, and the cool nights encourage a wonderful sleep. Cable has allowed us to watch the national conventions as well as the U.S. Open (the men’s final between Murray and Federer is tonight). We have a DVD player, and we’ve watched two of the 10 movies we brought with us.

Our 5th wheel comes with a terrific shower, and when we have a sewer we do not need to be careful about how much water we use. With Andrea and me taking showers right after each other, we have yet to run out of hot water. When we don’t have a sewer connection, we take short. showers using as little water as possible.

Although we have air conditioning and use it when necessary, the a-c unit has a fan on it which can be used on low or high. One night we used it all night on low just to block out the noise of a nearby active campsite. A small, portable fan (which I have on now) circulates the air sufficiently for comfort. When mornings are cold (it will get into the mid forties the next couple of nights) our cube heater provides a quick warm-up in the morning.

With two refrigerators, plenty of fresh drinking water, a microwave, full stove, a regular oven (which we’ve never used), we have all the conveniences necessary to prepare complete meals. We carry 3 small, blue-ice packets and a small plastic thermos-like container so that we prepare our lunches in the morning before breaking camp, and carry sandwiches, fruit, yogurt, fresh vegetables, drinks, and cookies wherever we travel or tour.

We heard recently of a prominent physician from our hometown who is retiring and whose wife wants to travel. He has no interest in traveling, but he says he can be persuaded. Considering what there is to see and do in the world, it is hard for us to imagine such a position. Day-before-yesterday, for example, we took a two-nation cruise to explore the 1,000 islands at the mouth of the St. Lawrence Seaway between Canada and the U.S. In another example, just a 1-hour stop at the Discovery Center in Sacket Harbor, NY, yesterday alone, supplied sufficient information to overwhelm the senses. Information on the farming and agriculture of this region, architecture, tourism, fishing, recreation, and history was impressive. Information on Frederick Douglass and Susan B. Anthony, Frank Lloyd Wright (his famous home, Graycliff, is in Derby, NY), and because geography dictated that the war of 1812 operations take place around Lake Erie, near the Niagara River between Lake Erie and Lake Ontario, and near the Saint Lawrence River area, there was much information on those events as well.

There is much excitement in 5th-wheelin’ it, and camping in this manner is exceptional not because of any one element but as a result of adding everything together. Sure, it’s the vehicles, the ease, the supplies, the amenities, the weather, and all that you can learn. Our travels have always been educational adventures. The experience of using our 5th wheel is the delightful and wonderful combination that cannot be entirely predicted nor anticipated. It proves, however, that “camping” can be truly exceptional.


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> Travel While You’re Young
> Canoeing the Pine River
> Celebrity’s Millennium plies the Mediterranean with an emphasis on service and satisfaction


Traveling by guess and by gosh
December 2008
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

In Lolo, Montana, on September 9, 2005, we stopped in a field 12 miles southwest of Missoula where we discovered that Lewis & Clark had camped there exactly (to the very day) 200 years before in 1805. At this spot, called Traveler’s Rest, were tents, well-marked pathways, people in costumes, large areas roped off for visitor parking, and we had no idea what was going on when we stopped. Being very early in the day — before they had begun charging for admission to the grounds — we parked and walked throughout the whole area. I even had my picture taken sitting on a tree stump exactly where their latrine was located.

How do they know where the latrine was located? At the LewisandClarkTrail.com website, it says, “The Traveler's Rest Preservation & Heritage Association reported that archaeologists uncovered what appears to be the latrine used by the Corps of Discovery while camping at Traveler's Rest. Significant amounts of mercury were found in the soil where a Corps' latrine was located. The expedition regularly used mercury as a medical treatment.”

This accidental stop at Traveler’s Rest wasn’t the first “by guess and by gosh” occurrence, and it certainly won’t be the last. As-a-matter-of-fact, our entire trip to upstate New York in September, 2008, was all by guess and by gosh, and many of the experiences we had are truly memorable.

We left home on Wednesday, August 27th with no specific agenda and traveling straight east, we drove 262 miles (as far as we could) in one day. We stayed at the Hidden Valley Campground and RV Park in Jamestown, New York. For the second night we stayed in Meadow Vale Campsites at Mt. Vision, NY. Without a reservation, it was our third night that caused a slight problem. Our first choice of campsites in the Lake George area was full, but the owner called to Lake George Campsites and secured a site for us. Most of the 100 or more campsites were occupied or reserved because it was Labor Day; thus, we felt lucky to get a site in an open field (with full services) along with close to ten other RVs and fifth wheels.

With the Great Escape amusement park (roller coasters) close by, an elaborate putt-putt golf course at the entrance to our campsite area, an outlet mall within 1-2 miles, and many fast-food and sit-down restaurants in the area, Lake George catered to families, not to those who had an appreciation for natural things. We traveled around Lake George, up Prospect Mountain (for $7.00 per car), and were happy to leave for the Adirondack Mountains after three nights.

“By guess and by gosh” is much easier after Labor Day when children have to be back in school, and most people have ended their summer vacations.

It was only a three-hour drive from Lake George to the North Pole Campsites, just outside of Lake Placid. Site 65 in their 100-acre wooded area was private, close to their very clean restrooms, and had full service. Our first excursion took us to the AuSable River Gorge which cost us $10.50 each to walk it because it was privately owned. We then drove to Platsburg and drove around the SUNY campus there — a place I had considered teaching early in my career.

Our second excursion took us to the High Falls Gorge (also on the AuSable River), where our tickets were $9.00 each (because it was privately owned) to walk the Gorge. The Gorge is absolutely gorge-ous! Then we took Veteran’s Memorial Highway (NY 403) to the top of Whiteface Mountain, near Wilmington, NY, where I took a 286-foot elevator (carved out of the stone at the center of the mountain) to the top of the 4,867 foot-high mountain. It cost $12.60 (with an AAA discount) to drive up the mountain (because it was privately owned).

You obviously see a trend here in my citation of costs. We were amazed that the natural wonders of the Adirondack Mountains which should be state or national parks, were all privately owned with — what we considered to be — exorbitant costs attached.

From the North Pole Campsites we drove just over two hours north to Massena, NY, along the St. Lawrence Seaway. There, we found a site in the Massena International Kampground, all by ourselves, overlooking the Grasse River. After setting up camp, we drove to the Dwight D. Eisenhower Lock and watched a large ship traverse the lock. At the Robert Moses State Park, we saw an enormous electric-generating plant, but we chose not to take a tour.

We stayed just one night in Massena then drove along the St. Lawrence River (following the Great Lakes’ Seaway Trail, to Clayton and Alexandria Bay, NY, which is the location of the 1,000-island area. Just to the west of Clayton we found Riverside Island RV Park. After setting up camp, we returned to Clayton and Alexandria Bay to walk around. The following day we went back to Clayton to take a 2 ½- hour, two-nation cruise of the islands. The tour ended at the Boldt Castle, where we had delicious chili dogs and toured the castle before taking a boat-shuttle back to Clayton. The cost for the cruise and the additional cost for the Castle tour were reasonable and well worth it.

Our next camping site, just 2 1/2-hours west from Clayton at Pulaski, NY, was at Brennan Beach RV Park & Campsite, one of the largest parks we have ever stayed in. With over 1400 sites, we chose the wooded area which had full-service hook-ups for just 62 campers. We were one of only three in the entire wooded area, and all three campers were spread out from each other so that each of us felt totally alone. The park had a long sandy beach on the shore of Lake Ontario, and it was located next to a Deer Lake State Wildlife Refuge where we located and photographed swans along a trail where we walked.

All that I have mentioned in this essay thus far was “by guess and by gosh.” We had no reservations; we made no plans; we just went along at our own pace and on our own schedule. But the real payoff for our “by guess and by gosh” travels on this trip was yet to come. Next week's essay is full of more surprises.



Although we used a 5th-wheel camper for our travels, it is similar to having an RV (recreational vehicle). At this website, “RV Ideas for Family Traveling,” there are numerous tips and suggestions that may help guide you in the right direction.

Admittedly the tips and suggestions at this website, “Connell Family Camping Page: Camping Tips,” has an enormous number of ideas that begin with finding the right camper and towing vehicle, to winterizing tips, games and activities, preparation miscellaneous suggestions, as well as meal and family time suggestions. There is so much information on this site, you cannot fail to be amazed — or learn something new.


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> World geography and then some
> When "camping" becomes exceptional
> Traveling by guess and by gosh
> Traveling by guess and by gosh II
> Travel While You’re Young
> Canoeing the Pine River
> Celebrity’s Millennium plies the Mediterranean with an emphasis on service and satisfaction


Traveling by guess and by gosh II
December 2008
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

We were driving through the small village of Sodus Point, New York, after visiting the old lighthouse and museum and Chimney Bluff State Park, when I saw a small sign set out near the main road through town. It simply read “Pizza,” and after a quick discussion of dinner plans, we turned around and ordered a large for $11.99. After a wait of about 30 minutes, while we strolled the harbor, we took the pizza back to our Brennan Beach campsite. Talk about traveling “by guess and by gosh,” it was the best pizza we have ever had.

What was interesting about this “best pizza” experience was that when we were at the old lighthouse in Sodus Point, two ladies we asked about getting pizza said, very clearly and assertively, that there was no place in Sodus Point to get good pizza. Maybe they thought Sodus Point only had excellent pizza!

From a campsite overlooking Lake Ontario at Sodus Point we drove just 30 miles to
Cheerful Valley Campground. Our “by guess and by gosh” opportunity occurred when we visited the National Women’s Right Park and Museum, in Seneca Falls, NY. It was a wonderful and inspiring collection of photographs, stories, and papers (books, letters, and pamphlets) about the life and times of Susan B. Anthony, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Jane Hunt, Frederick Douglass, Mary Ann McClintock and the McClintock family and all the others who hosted the First Women's Rights Convention at Seneca Falls in 1848. Here were representative objects from the Women's Rights Movement of the 19th and 20th centuries particularly as they relate to the Declaration of Sentiments and the first Women’s Rights Convention.

An even more impressive “by guess and by gosh” moment took place as a result of talking with the owner of Cheerful Valley Campground. He pointed out that “
Canal Days," was taking place in Palmyra, NY, and because we had expressed an interest in seeing the Erie Canal, he suggested we go. The main part of downtown Palmyra was closed off because of the parade route and all the tents, so we parked at the Palmyra fairgrounds and were shuttled to main street by school bus.

Just as we got off the bus in downtown Palmyra, there was a loudspeaker announcement that an historic walking tour of the Erie Canal would be taking place, and all those interested should gather at the main information booth. Just our luck! We met our tour guide and then the five other people taking the tour with us. Our guide showed us the old stores that serviced the canal, the hotels and storage sheds, and some of the old homes. He pointed out, too, how the bed of the canal had changed three times as it had been widened and deepened. He told us that in the time of the canal, traffic was constant day and night, but now most all canal traffic is recreational boats and tourist excursions. All the locks remain in working condition.

As we were getting on the bus to return to the fairgrounds, we asked a couple we saw how to get to the
Joseph Smith Farm. We had not noticed that both people were wearing name tags indicating they were Mormon. They gave us specific directions out of the parking area, and we drove directly to the farm. In entering the parking lot, we noticed that the person in the welcome center of the farm waved to us, and later we discovered the couple from whom we asked directions had phoned ahead to let them know we were coming.

After a short talk by two missionary women from Australia, who were clearly proselytizing on behalf of their faith, we decided not to take the tour of the farm and Sacred Grove but, instead, drive directly to
Hill Cumorah. In the small town (population 8,000) of Palmyra, NY, is where the Mormon faith was born. It was the home of Joseph Smith, the founder of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, known as the Mormon Church. At Hill Cumorah we climbed to the golden statue of the angel Moroni just as Joseph Smith had visited the Hill Cumorah at Moroni’s prompting and dug up the golden plates on which the Book of Mormon was written. We did not look for any forgotten golden plates, nor did we receive any prodding from Moroni, but our trip was instructive and interesting just the same.

Our next excursion from the Cheerful Valley Campground was to the
Montezuma National Wildlife Refuge. Driving through the entire Refuge, there was little wildlife to be seen since the fall migration had not begun, but in the souvenir shop of the welcome center, we found some beautiful ballpoint pens in the shape of animals that we purchased (nine of them) for stocking presents for our grandchildren.

Because we were in the Finger Lakes region of upstate New York, we drove along Cayuga Lake, stopped at an Amish Market, visited Geneva (at the tip of Seneca Lake), and drove through several state parks.

The Finger Lakes, according to
Wikipedia, “mainly are linear in shape, each lake oriented on a north-south axis. The two longest, Cayuga Lake and Seneca Lake, are among the deepest in America. Both are close to 40 miles from end to end, but never more than 3.5 miles wide.” Again, quoting Wikipedia, “The Finger Lakes area is New York's largest wine producing region. Over 100 wineries and vineyards are centered around Seneca, Cayuga, Canandaigua, and Keuka Lakes. Because of the lakes' great depth, they provide a lake effect to the lush vineyards that flank their shores.”

From Cheerful Valley in Phelps, NY, we drove 202 miles to Chautauqua Campground on Chautauqua Lake. This was our final campsite, and because we stayed four days, it gave us time to relax, drive around the lake, and visit two outstanding gift shops in
Bemus Point, NY. We had outstanding trips to Long Point State Park, Jamestown, and the Chautauqua Institute. as well.

We started this “by guess and by gosh” vacation with no reservations and no travel plans. It was simply a 3 ½ week visit to upstate New York. What we discovered at many points was startling. There were so many outstanding, unplanned for, and extraordinary experiences that this is an adventure we would recommend to anyone seeking a new and exciting get-away.

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Travel While You’re Young
November 2007
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

We have a number of stories that make it clear why people should travel before they get too old to do so. In one case, a woman was traveling with her physically challenged mother because just since planning their “trip of a lifetime,” the woman’s father died, so she was filling in and giving her mother the trip she and her husband had planned.

My wife and I traveled with her father and mother. Her mother has difficulty walking, so we supplied a wheelchair on a cruise to the Panama Canal, and we served as helpers throughout the cruise. It was their last one as they were in their late 80s; however, without our help, they would not have been able to do it. On that cruise, they did not leave the ship.

On our Mediterranean cruise, a couple of our excursions were clearly marked “strenuous,” however, some older, physically challenged people signed up anyway. There were times when their condition held up the rest of the group, and in several instances, they could not go where the group went. Few foreign, tourist, venues are handicap accessible — and that includes bathrooms. In one instance, when the excursion ended, one physically challenged person in the front seat of the bus took the microphone from the tour guide and thanked those on the bus for their assistance at every venue visited on the tour. It was a nice gesture, of course, and people appreciated his comments, but the word “strenuous” should have led him to select another less rigorous tour.

During our two-week Mediterranean cruise there were a number of instances that underscored the suggestion: travel while you’re young.

At a 5-star hotel in Venice, the elevators were being repaired when our busload of 40 people arrived. We were responsible for transporting our carry-on bags to the fifth floor. There weren’t even enough porters to handle the influx of visitors. The hotel workers brought up our heavier, checked bags, but for a number of trips out of the hotel, we had to use the stairs.

When we had to leave this hotel in Venice, I checked specifically with the concierge service to find out who was responsible for getting our checked bags to the lobby. Because our cruise line had booked the hotel as well as our transportation to the airport, we were the responsible party. Those who cruised with us and were taking the same airport bus all lugged their bags down to the lobby, a feat that challenged us all. And none of us, fortunately, was physically challenged or too old to take on this unexpected occurrence.

On this cruise there was another instance that underscored the suggestion, travel while you’re young. Our cruise-ship company, claiming no responsibility for damaged or lost luggage, broke one wheel off my large, heavy, checked bag. This is easy to understand when you see the way bags are pushed and pulled over the metal thresholds on the ship. Without one wheel the bag is awkward and unwieldy to say the least. And, when you have two carry-on pieces, plus a fanny-pack, and a jacket, handling a handicapped bag as well is tough. Tough, but possible, of course.

There are additional reasons, too, that underscore our suggestion to travel while you’re young. For example, the entire preparation process for traveling can be exhausting. Making certain documents are in order, making certain the proper attire is packed, making sure medications are sufficient and labeled, and making certain travel arrangements are completed and correct are ample enough to test anyone, much less the elderly. These are taxing, time-intensive processes that become easier the more one travels but are, nonetheless, tiring.

Another reason is patience. I may be unusual, but my patience has become inversely proportional to my age. As I grow older, my patience decreases. Where does this reveal itself? Primarily in my tolerance for incompetence. After a cruise to the Bahamas from New York City, we returned to discover another large ship was unloading passengers at the same dock as our own. Upon picking up our car and driving down the ramp to the terminal to collect waiting family members, an attendant directing traffic revealed his incompetence. The family and the luggage was at the curb, and there was ample space to pull over and stop, but the attendant would not let me. Pointing out my family and their luggage made no impression; trying to pull over against his very clear directives to move down to the end of the pick-up area, only angered him more. Family members had to step off the curb into passing traffic and drag their bags for close to a block because of the attendant’s lack of flexibility and — in our mind — incompetence.

Yet another reason that underscores our suggestion to cruise while you’re young is crowds. My wife and I thought that by scheduling our Mediterranean cruise in October, we would avoid the notorious crowds found at attractive tourist sites during the peak cruising season — summer. Wrong. The lines in Florence to get into the Academy to see Michelangelo’s original “David,” were long, and some tour groups were unable to get in. The lines to get into the Sistine Chapel in Rome were long, but they did not match those waiting to get into St. Peter’s Basilica. The crowds at Pompeii just outside of Naples, the Acropolis in Athens, and the 45-min. to 1-hour wait to get up the cable car in Santorini, Greece, would drive some people crazy. There were crowds everywhere we walked in Venice. These were not instances that concerned us because — with the exception of Venice — we were with planned excursions with reservations and guides who knew how to help us avoid many of these crowds. But the crowds were there; they appeared in abundance; and they are worse — horrific — during the peak tourist season.

The suggestion to travel while you’re young may not help you avoid rude behavior, however. We got to the cable car at Santorini early and had staked out a position for a car going down. Suddenly, there were six people who, using their raised elbows to prevent us from entering the car, pushed in front of us, quickly boarded and sat down, then ignored us and the shock on our faces.

Exhaustion is another reason to travel while you’re young. Dramatic, six-hour time changes take their toll; adapting to new beds, new schedules, and different foods is taxing; taking excursions to see more sights and gain more information, puts a strain on the body; and leaving friends, grandchildren, homes, and yards can be trying as well.

Traveling becomes more and more difficult as you get older. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it, it means weighing your options. If you can plan for and arrange to do it when you’re young, there are not only many reasons that support that decision, but the entire process of traveling becomes easier.


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Canoeing the Pine River
July 2008
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

Every year for the past dozen or so, we take a short break during the summer months to go canoeing with friends of ours. For all but one year (because of a shoulder injury of one person) we have selected the Pine River outside of Cadillac, Michigan, as our river of destination, and our two-day trip has followed a predictable plan that is both exciting and rewarding.

We always leave after church on Sundays, and we alternate drivers so that one year we drive and the next one our friends drive. The drive to Cadillac takes between five and six hours, and after quickly settling into the motel, we head to Lakeside Charlie’s restaurant for dinner. Stuffed pork loin and prime rib were our most recent selections of choice, and all agreed that the meal was outstanding. We had a recommendation from the motel desk clerk to eat at Herman’s Restaurant downtown, however, in checking out that restaurant, we found it closed on Sundays.

Following dinner we went to Glen’s Supermarket to pick up supplies for lunch on the river the next day. From the selection of already prepared sandwiches, we decided that next year we would make our own at home and bring them with us as we do with most of our lunch supplies.

On several occasions, an evening swim or a walk in the cemetery across the highway from our motel took place, but on our most recent trip we were all too tired to pursue either of these activities so we simply relaxed in our rooms and went to bed.

The arrangement was to meet at 7:30 a.m. in the breakfast area downstairs in the motel, and there we all filled up on cereal, omelets, rolls, waffles, orange juice, and coffee.

We checked out of the motel by about 8:30 and drove to Jim Horringa’s canoe livery just beyond Peterson Bridge which crosses the Pine. We were the first canoers to arrive at the livery and after paying $40 per canoe for the 4-5 hour trip, and after shifting our lunch supplies to a transportation van, we all went to deposit our car at Low Bridge where we would be ending our trip. After putting a state park parking sticker on the mirror of the car, the van took us to Dobson Bridge where Jim had deposited two Old Towne red canoes (numbers 14 and 24) for our use.

We were on the Pine River by 10:10 a.m., and the current, as usual, was rapid, the water was clear and cold, and the sky was overcast with the potential of widely scattered showers. It was cool and the heavy mist over the water gave a Stephen King aura to the trip.

Adding to the look of the River on our most recent trip (July 6-7, 2008) was the fact that for two weeks in June it had risen to nine feet over its current height and had to be shut down to all canoers. The point at which the nine-foot height of the River affected the numerous sand banks traversing the River was obvious during the entire trip from Dobson to Low Bridge. In addition, there were trees down, stumps and limbs to avoid, and many trees tilted down toward the River in a last, desperate effort to preserve their foothold. At one point, there was a brief portage to avoid a full block of the River by trees, limbs, stumps, and other debris. At another point a large tree blocked the entire River, and we had to make a brief portage around the end of it to continue our trip.

One advantage of canoeing on Monday each year is that the crush of weekenders is over, and we have most of the River to ourselves. The exception was this year since we followed the Fourth of July weekend so closely, there were a number of other rafters and canoers (maybe a dozen or so), but for the morning, and until stopping for lunch, we saw no other people.

At 11:40 a.m. we reached the state park at Peterson Bridge where we pulled our canoes out of the water and set up for lunch at a Riverside picnic table. Our friends come prepared with a oil-cloth table covering, plates, plastic dinnerware and a spread of food that is incomparable in our picnicing experiences. We bring fruit, chips, sandwiches, and additional selections to make our lunchtime a mouth watering, extensive, celebration of food. There are pit toilets at this stop, and this year we made it a full one-half hour stop, putting into the river again at 1:10 and traveling the last portion of the River to Low Bridge (float time is 3 hours) in exactly two hours.

As if to signal the coming of the last portion of the river, the sun emerged from the clouds, and our afternoon was sunny and breezy with blue sky and beautiful white clouds.

At Low Bridge, we pulled the canoes out of the water, took the paddles and seat cushions back to the livery, and changed clothes and cleaned-up for our next experience.

Driving directly south from Horinga’s canoe livery at about 4:10, we joined up with Route 10 and proceeded directly east back across the upper lower peninsula. The trip to Frankenmuth takes just about two-and-one-half hours, and we arrived at Zehnder’s for their outstanding chicken dinner at about 6:30 or so.

We made Zehnder’s a destination one year when we put in at Peterson Bridge accidentally (instead of Dobson Bridge) and ended up with a canoe trip of just two hours instead of 3-4, and went to Frankenmuth and toured the stores and shops downtown just to occupy some time. It was a fortuitous accident which created a new tradition of eating dinner there and a new destination following our canoeing experience each year.

Ushered directly to our seats, we took approximately two hours for their standard, all-you-can-eat chicken dinner. We have had outstanding waitresses, and we end our meal with a small sundae (not on the menu), which we received as a compliment from our waitress just for asking for it. We have discovered that by asking for it, it has become a standard part of our meal.

Leaving Zehnder’s by 8:10 p.m. allowed us to get home by approximately 10:15 p.m. or so, and we made it just in time for our normal bedtime.

Much of the success of our trip has resulted from good planning. We made reservations at the motel early, know what we need to take with us to make canoeing user-friendly (like insect repellent — badly needed on our current trip — sun block lotion, hats to protect from the sun, lightweight clothes, surf-friendly shoes that can and do get wet, and rope to tie everything into our canoes. None of us have tipped over in the dozen or so years we have been traversing the river, but we prepare for that eventuality none the less.

The Pine River is an experience for knowledgeable canoists whose instincts regarding the control and maneuvering of canoes are well in place. With planning, good friends, and a great canoe livery, we have made it an exciting and rewarding annual experience.



At the Schmidt Outfitters web site, http://www.schmidtoutfitters.com/, there is more information on the Pine River.

At Michigan.gov the Department of Natural Resources has a map of the Pine River watershed and more information about it: http://www.michigan.gov/dnr/0,1607,7-153-30301_31431_31442-95813--,00.html

Jay Hanks has posted a description of his wilderness trip on the Pine River at his web site, http://www.paddling.net/places/showReport.html Although his trip was longer than ours (from Edgetts to Tippy Dam) it covered some of the same territory we did.



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Celebrity’s Millennium plies the Mediterranean with an emphasis on service and satisfaction
October 2007
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

Counting our cruise of the great rivers of Europe (clearly not an ocean cruise), this was our eighth. We had two full weeks, and we visited five countries (Spain, France, Italy, Greece, and Turkey). This cruise was what Celebrity called its “Classic Mediterranean Cruise.”

We were on board early in Barcelona, Spain, to do three things: 1) check on the availability of a shore excursion we were unable to book online, 2) make certain we had a table for two at the main (early) dinner seating, and 3) have lunch while waiting for our room to become available. It all worked out, and we had a surprise waiting for us as well.

While waiting in the Rendezvous Lounge to see the Assistant Maitre D’, we realized we had seen him before. Zafer Colak, from Turkey, was on the Zenith (a previous Celebrity ship) for our two-week cruise of the Southern Caribbean out of Jacksonville, Florida. He checked our table assignment on his computer and assured us it was a table-for-two. We had previously been assigned a table for six, but we had changed it.

Zafer, however, went well beyond his duty. He looked closely at his computer monitor, and (because he knew us from a previous cruise) he gave us a new, better table for two — the “Honeymoon Table” — which had a large porthole and was located in his section of the dining room.

Every night at dinner, we would sit and watch the sun go down, ships coming and going from the local harbor, lights along the shoreline, departure from the port, or just the calm, soothing waters of the Mediterranean. Every night, too, we had an opportunity to thank Zafer for his kindness — proof, once again, that who you know makes a difference. He dropped by to chat, kept an eye on us, and once as we were leaving the dining room, introduced us to his recently acquired mother-in-law, whom he admired greatly.

Now I don’t want to suggest we were getting preferential treatment because I know that all Celebrity guests have the same kindnesses demonstrated on a continuing basis, but our waiter, Catalin Dumitrescu from Romania, and his assistant, Everton Curtis, from Jamaica (but who spends most of his time in New York City), went out of their way — just as Zafer did — to make certain our voyage was enjoyable and rewarding — service and satisfaction.

The examples I offer here are not extraordinary, but they show what can be expected as a dining experience at sea. The waiters learned quickly that we enjoyed eating, but also that we liked to leave, rather than linger, when we had completed our dinner. The tables around us seated 10, 10, and 8, and all the Koreans at these tables took more time to eat and drink. Our pace was faster so our waiters made certain our courses came more quickly than those at the tables close by, and we were able to finish and leave before them.

My wife liked cranberry juice with her dinner, and I enjoyed the French bread, so every night there was a glass of cranberry juice, and the breadbasket was filled only with the French bread I ate and the bread sticks my wife enjoyed. For dessert my wife and I ordered that evening’s special sorbet, and then we split a second dessert which was carefully placed at the center of the table between us with additional utensils for each of us as well.

Zafer, Catalin, and Everton all greeted us as we entered the restaurant and made certain they were there to say goodbye when we left. All members of the ship's crew would openly greet passengers. When any of them were asked how they were, their response was always a cheery and effervescent, “Excellent!”

I want to assure readers of this essay that I am not naive with respect to the way my wife and I were treated. A substantial portion of the salary of the assistant maitre d’, waiter, and assistant waiter (in addition to the stateroom attendant, and assistant chief housekeeper, I might add) comes from the pockets of travelers. According to the “Millennium—Onboard Gratuity Form,” our assistant maitre d’ received $.75 ($1.50 for two) per day, our waiter received $3.50 per day ($7.00 for two), and our assistant waiter received $2.00 ($4.00 for two) per day. If we combine these costs (including our stateroom attendant and assistant chief housekeeper) we gave $10.25 (or $20.50 for two) per day for tips. For a two-week voyage, this came to $287.00 for the two of us. More can be given if passengers desire.

The purpose of this essay is not to complain, however, it is to point out to those who have not cruised, that this is an expense that needs to be budgeted-in when booking a cruise. Also, it offers an explanation for some of the outstanding service and satisfaction, but I have never sensed that any of the service we have received was performed with an ulterior motive. In all cases I have found ship crew and staff members — no matter their rank or position — willing to do anything to provide both service and satisfaction. Cruise lines know, of course, that this is one item factored in when people make a decision to schedule another cruise.

My wife and I enjoyed a wonderful and rewarding cruise on board Celebrity’s ship, Millennium, and the wait staff there were truly representative of all those on our previous cruises. It makes no difference whether you are in the ship’s dining room or any other place on board, the wait staff aims to please. Everyone from the officers down to the workers who paint, clean, and polish will go out of their way, in every way they can, to assure a pleasant, rewarding, and successful cruising experience. Does it make a difference? When we first began cruising seven years ago, we never thought of ourselves as people who would like it, yet this is our eighth time! Something “right” has to be happening! My conclusion is that the service and satisfaction pays off; it just keeps bringing us back. A special thank you to Zafer, Catalin, and Everton!


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> Travel While You’re Young
> Canoeing the Pine River
> Celebrity’s Millennium plies the Mediterranean with an emphasis on service and satisfaction



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